Showing posts with label well behaved. Show all posts
Showing posts with label well behaved. Show all posts

Thursday, August 13, 2015

Soccer, Soccer, Soccer - Maxwell joins a soccer team!

The third week of February was all about soccer!!!  We went on Sunday to an indoor soccer game.  It was a lot of fun with lots of action.  (It was also very loud.  Why don't I remember how loud these things are going to be and bring headphones for Emmalyn?)

She's like a little lady bug today

Max was super into the game - watching, cheering, joining in on the crowd participating things

Emmalyn also like watching the game and got really into clapping.  It was good until someone scored and then it would get way to loud for her.

Emmalyn just had fun watching and talking to everyone behind us.

Super focused

We ended up leaving early because Maxwell was tired and Emmalyn was tired of the screams every time someone scored. (The scores are much higher in indoor soccer because the action rarely stops.)

Big girl walking along things

Her hair still has that one curl on the top of her head, just like the day she was born - just with a little more hair now.

I will take these cuddles any day!

Max celebrated Mardi Gras at preschool and was excited about his beads. (I was excited that he didn't have to wear his uniform - that's a rare thing.)

I was worried about Max and felt like he was getting sick and it wasn't just a cold, so I took him into the pediatrician (against Peter's judgement - - - hey, a mom doesn't want to worry!).  His regular ped had added a new Dr to her practice and we saw the new Dr.  She was great, I love her!  (Which is nice).  Max did a great job of engaging with her and answering all her questions while I just sat there.  What a cool new experience for Maxwell to get to handle all the doctor's questions!

Of course, the doctor couldn't find anything wrong with him.  UGH!  So that was a waste of a co-pay but at least I feel better knowing he's okay and nothing's wrong.
He's now 35.4 lbs!



Emmalyn and Landen

We signed Maxwell up to play indoor soccer on a team with 3 and 4 year old.  We knew he wanted to play soccer and had heard indoor soccer is great at this age because the ball always stays on the field and you don't have to spend most of the game chasing the ball out of bounds.  We didn't know anyone on the team before joining so hopefully we will make a bunch of new friends!  His coaches are Coach Eric and Coach Maggie.

We had our first practice.  It was quite crazy/funny/adorable/frustrating to watch these kids try to do the drills.  The coaches did a great job.
Max is in the blue and grey striped fleece top

Patiently waiting while holding his ball still (I wondered if he would be able to do it when the coach gave this instruction but he was able to do it)


Video - Maxwell at soccer practice

It was windy and FREEZING!  What happened to the nice weather?

Max did an awesome job of kicking the ball into the goal whenever it was his turn and also didn't touch the ball with his hands

Circling up with his team at the end of practice, just like the big kids do it.  I can't believe he's really turning into a kid and doing stuff like this.


Selfie

She's now starting to really pick what she wants to play with

And sometimes that means a huge mess for Momma.  :)

My smiley girl

This play table is her favorite toy

Big Cheese (and Drool queen)

Look at those teeth (and if you look closely you can see more in the back getting closer too)

I am so grateful for this beautiful girl.   So grateful we were able to have another child, grateful we got a girl, and grateful for her happy little spirit.

Our next door neighbors asked if they could take Max to watch one of the high school soccer games (their son's on the team).  I said yes.  This is the first time (at least that I can remember) that Maxwell has gone off in a car with someone that wasn't us or immediate family.  I was super nervous about it and nervous about how he'd behalf, etc. but I really didn't need to be.  Mr. Chris and Ms. Mary Ann LOVE Max.  They are great parents, clearly capable people, and Max is such a good kid.

Anyway, as you can see above, Maxwell was really happy and had a great time.  We are so lucky to have such great people living next door.

Conversations with Maxwell are certainly changing...

This weekend he asked where my mom was and I tried to explain that to him,  Boy was that hard.  What do you vs what don't you tell a 3 year old?  I explained that she had died and started to say she was sick and then stopped myself because I didn't want him to believe that just because someone is sick that they will die...  And then I tried to explain that she was in heaven and even though we couldn't see her that she could see us and she loved us all very much.  Ugh, who knows if I did a good job or not.  I did my best.

The other day, I didn't want him to touch the sound bar for the TV and told him so.  He got mad and said to me, "I'm mad at your behavior" in such an upset voice.  I had to not laugh and how cute that was.

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Halloween Festivities

Our next door neighbors held their Halloween party again.  This time I didn't get a costume at a costume shop so there was no way someone else would show up in the same costume!

Soccer referee Peter, all ready for the pouring rain outside

Don't you dare blow that whistle at me!

I got red carded. 

Soccer mom and her ref

The party was fun.  Well, as much fun as it can be when you #1 - don't get to enjoy any adult beverages, #2 - are hungry but little of the food is palatable to your sensitive stomach, #3 - are completely tired.  :)  Someday it's my goal to be completely at ease at parties like this.  It's just not something I am good at.  I enjoy being with my husband and most of the time these parties end up with the guys hanging out with each other while the ladies hang out with each other.  Plus, I get tired of small talk really quickly.  This year I knew more people and knew them better, so maybe next year will be great?

The next day, Brittany's church had a Halloween carnival so we packed up the costumed kids and headed over there.

Our trouble makers landed themselves in jail.
Hayden was a SWAT guy, Landen was a firefighter, and Max was a soccer player.  (We had a family theme this year.)

Max went on his first big kid ride.  He was a little nervous with this guy helping him get buckled.

Then the ride started and he got really upset and wanted to get out.

Once he realized he wasn't going to be able to get out until it was over, he sat there with his hands folded and the most sad "I'm being tortured" face.  He was the exact opposite of Landen who was having a GREAT time and was rocking the plane, laughing, and had the biggest smile ever on his face.  This is in keeping with these boys personalities...Landen is adventurous and bold while Max is more timid and reserved.

Happy to be back with dad

We played games and then he'd put the candy prizes in his pumpkin.

Once we let him have one piece of candy, it was all over and that became the focus.  He was very happy about this sucker!


Max trying a pixie stick

After we played the games and Landen and Hayden enjoyed some bounce houses (remember timid Max?  yeah, he wouldn't even go in one), then we got Max's first cotton candy.  

Yummmm, give me more!

He had a HUGE sugar rush.  He was running around and being silly.  Cracked me up.  It's fascinating to me how quickly that sugar hits his system and affects him.

When we got home, I was so tired that I went to bed at 8:30 with Max.  He was so well behaved at the festival.  He listened to us, he stayed close, he held our hands when we asked him to, and he didn't throw a fit when we stopped giving him candy.  We have found that it works really well for Max in general when we give him warnings of when stuff will end... for example, "one more piece of candy", or "2 more minutes on the iPad", "you have 5 minutes left to play before it's bedtime", etc.

More fun Halloween festivities...

Max painted the pumpkin he got at the Arboretum.



He figured out if he turned the paintbrush around, he could make designs in the paint - pretty clever!

Messy hands

Hayden helped Peter get the guts out of the pumpkin

Ew! :)

Max watching Daddy work his magic.

I'll post a picture of the finished pumpkins with another post.