Thursday, January 28, 2016

Maxwell turns 4!

Max's birthday started out with some very special birthday pancakes!

Ooh!  There's chocolate inside this pancake!!


Britt took all the kids swimming while I was at work

Max specifically requested "Jet's Pizza" for his birthday dinner

She's ready to go

Playing while Maxwell swims

Max's first lesson of Level 6.  He's now swimming in the middle of the pool (they only go half way and then swim back but it takes more endurance to swim there and back).  When he's done with his turn, he climbs out of the pool and sits on the edge of the pool.  The other kids just stand at the edge but he's not even close to being able to touch the bottom of the pool yet.

Time for presents!


Video - Maxwell opening his presents.  I enjoy how you really get to see his personality.

Grandma Donna skyped with us while Maxwell opened his presents and then Emmalyn got her chance to talk to her.

His new transformers were a big hit!

Max also got to skype with Aunt Kimi.

Maxwell had a great birthday!  I can't believe he's 4.

He has been so excited for his birthday.  This morning, Peter, Emmalyn and I went in to get him and we sang happy birthday to him and he was embarrassed to be the center of attention and put his head down shyly while we were singing to him.

He was excited about the balloons I decorated with and the birthday banner.  He was really happy this evening when we were opening presents.  He's also happy about his "little party" coming up and chose the activity and the cake and wanted a few friends to come.

And now, a nice BIG update all about my Maxwell Charles on this special day.

He's having fun pretending and is now getting into bigger games (ugh) on the ipad
He's thoughtful, considerate, aware
He can read his watch and tell you what time it is
He loves to choose his clothes and most of the time they match.  He loves accessories - - necklaces, hats, watches, shoes.  He wants to wear athletic clothing most of the time.  He wants to be able to put his hair in a pony tail.
He showers by himself more often than not now.
He's an amazing swimmer (his coach brags on him every lesson to the other coaches)
Now that he's four we told him no more pull-ups for nap and nighttime (he hasn't had an issue at for a long time but he wanted them since it was his routine - the 3 P's at nighttime Potty, Pull-ups, and Pajamas)
He's particular about his hair and usually wants it down and not spikey anymore.
He struggles with listening to his parents (or if he hears he doesn't follow what we are asking).  Tonight I told him he was a good boy and he said yeah except when he's a bad boy and not listening.
He's afraid of dogs (mainly he's afraid of getting licked)
He has caught onto our focus on getting our "steps" in on our fitbit/apple watch, so he wants to get his steps in and will jump up to get his steps in.
Maxwell likes game shows (jeopardy, wheel of fortune, boom).  He loves to watch dancing.
He's particular about using people's full names if he knows them, kimberly amos, aaron nelson, etc.
He's not as shy anymore and will talk to people.
He likes the wii and he's a pro at using the ipad and iphones,
He does a good job of figuring out how to spell words by sounding them out.
He's a great reader but it's frustrating reading with him lately because he mumbles and skips over some nonessential words - -we focus on reading every word and speaking loudly.
He yells at his sister if she gets close to him and he knows she's going to do something to him he doesn't like (take his cereal, touch his toys).
He likes playing with cars and toys with smaller parts that are more intricate.
He is concerned about doing things "right" - - asks if foods have bad sugar in them, won't wear new clothes until I wash them, putting his pull-up on for naps and bedtime even though he didn't need it anymore.
His current drink of choice would be pink lemonade but he really likes water and gets that most of the time.
He loves to give kisses on arms/hands.
Less and less he plays with his nipples for self soothing but still does it and I feel like we are often telling him to stop touching himself.
I call him "baby" and he will remind me that he will always be my baby.  Once I explained that I call him baby even though he's not a baby anymore because it's a way to say "I love you" and so now he will tell me that I'm his baby.  :)
He has his dr appt tomorrow and has to get 4 shots, I told him he should say "that tickles" when he gets them so he is going to do it - he thinks it's funny.
He has a too big, too toothy "smile" face which isn't genuine.  He also does fake laughs and loud fake screams.
Maxwell loves playing with his cousins.
He is great at cleaning up after himself if he spills something or makes a mess.
He knows that the guidelines we use for whether he can watch a movie or show is if the people in the show talk nicely to each other.
He still doesn't like eating carrots, potatoes (other than fries) or ranch dressing,

He is a really fantastic, fun, smart kid!!

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Maxwell's last few days of being 3 years old

The days leading up to Max's Birthday were filled with anticipation and a few fun things.

Silly

How cute is that cheesy grin!

We enjoyed an afternoon next door swimming

Max is terrified of Mary Ann's dog.  The dog is a puppy and excited to be around people but Maxwell can't take it.  He runs away screaming which just makes the puppy think he wants to play... you can imagine how well that ends up.

He plays a little with other kids if they are in the pool but mostly he just swims by himself.

Britt made silly putty with the kids


Movie night at Britt's apartment

Fun at the park - Maxwell's face

Video - A short but sweet video of Emmalyn giggling while she's swinging

Cuddling with daddy


My two cute boys  (I'm still totally obsessed with that dimple of Maxwell's!)

Video - A conversation with Maxwell on his last night of being three about what he wants for his birthday

Prepping to do a sit up while sleeping?
She may look sweet but this little girl is now a pro at screaming and THROWING her head back.  She will absolutely throw a tantrum if she doesn't get what she wants.

Her left upper canine has broken through.  That means at 16 months she only has her upper right canine left to pop through and then her 2 year molars.  I'm not sure when it's supposed to happen but it sure feels like this has happened very quickly.

She will now eat cheese and eggs - YAHOO!!!



Maxwell is soooo excited for his birthday.  He has asked for a "donut cake".

The other day when I was cuddling with Max before he went to sleep he said, "Mom, if you ask me if you can scratch my back, I will says "yes, indeed""  How cute is that?  I had to chuckle that he didn't want to just come out and ask me to scratch his back.

He has been asking when we (mom and dad) are going to die and also when other people are going to die and when is he going to die.  I'm not sure why this is on his radar now but it doesn't seem to upset him, he just wants to understand it.

I ADORE Maxwell but oh man can he frustrate me with talking back lately.  He has also been bad with not listening (like when he's wanting to do it his way or when he's swinging his clothes around to hit someone or licking Peter - which makes Peter crazy).

He gives me so many kisses and often tells me he loves me.  He wants Momma to get him out of bed in the morning and to put him to bed at night.  He always wants me to cuddle with him before bed and will get blankets to put on me and ask if I am cold.

Monday, January 25, 2016

Maxwell graduates to a new level at swimming lessons

The second week of August was another fun week.  (Sometimes, when you are in the middle of summer, you forget to appreciate it.  Then, you get to the middle of winter and look back at even the most boring weeks of summer longingly.)

Tida and Jason went with us to Costco

Then we hit up the library for some new books

And we topped it off with a stop at the Snow Cone Lady for some snow cones!


Max showing me the computer watch he made at Brittany's

BIG Maxwell

(And since she has to do everything her brother does)
BIG Emmalyn

Max and the coach he's had since he was 18 months (with only few exceptions), Coach Katie.  She's been awesome coach and has continued to challenge Maxwell even when they haven't let him move to the next level because of his age.  She will continue to push him to do more.

Maxwell is graduating Level 5 and moving to Level 6!  Pretty exciting.  They let him go a few weeks before he turned 4. (Level 5 is for ages 5 - 7 and the kids start swimming in a lap lane in the middle of the pool without stairs or a ledge to hang out on.)


More time at the library (it's a great "activity" when it's too stinking hot to be outside).


Ahhh... the drool that NEVER ends.  Look at that drool "spot" on her shirt!

Sunday, January 24, 2016

All dressed up with no where to go

typical weekend morning... dad on his phone, max on the ipad, emmalyn reading books

I bought a darling white dress years ago, before I was even pregnant with Emmalyn and I figured why wait for the "perfect" moment to wear her pretty dress?  Let's wear it on an average Saturday.  I feel lucky to have so many cute clothes for her.
Playing with egg shakers

Playing with scarves

Playing with bubbles


Then I figured why not get some cute pictures while we waited for Peter and Maxwell to show up for Maxwell's class.



Cheese

Bigger cheese

Total cheese



We tried to get a cute pic of both of the kids


This is my favorite

Maxwell got to play with the parachute in his class - it's always a favorite.

Pool and Popsicles!



We will have to work on her popsicle holding technique  :)