Friday, September 30, 2011

The rest of September

On the 23rd, Max slept outside the newborn bassinet for the first time.  We still have him in the pack-n-play in our room because it is so much easier for those middle of the night feedings to have him right there.

Family pic while car shopping - we are on a lunch break

Max was so perfect while we car shopped. He slept most of the time. Lots of sleep during the day made for awful nights though. I was glad when we were done with all the test drives and Max could stop spending so many hours in his car seat.
See?  Fussy baby at night

Lovable lips


Max enjoying his play mat
On the 27th, Max wore his last newborn diaper.  He's was upset about it as I was but for different reasons.  :)  He was in newborn diapers for 5 1/2 weeks.  My little boy is getting bigger.
There is nothing sweeter than a sleeping baby!
Joe switched to working at a new In-N-Out store.  Before a new store opens, they have a friends and family night the evening before where you can eat for free.  I wasn't able to go to the last one, so there was no way we were missing this one!  Max and Landen both wore their In-N-Out onesies - they were a hit! I loved my food, as usual and got a tour of the restaurant.  I felt pretty cool to get to behind the counter and in the backroom.  We had a lot of fun - thanks for inviting us, Joe!

Peter decorated Max's car seat with In-N-Out stickers

Joe, Brittany, and Landen

Big Baby Yawn!

Daddy and Max

In-n-out babies and their daddies

I love pictures of his feet - so tiny

Happily hangin' at in-n-out

Cherubic Angel

Aunt Brittany and Maxwell

Happy to be sitting here calmly
The 30th - Max is officially 6 weeks old!  It's amazing that it has been that long already.  I love seeing how much Max changes and grows every day.

This movie is sort long but it shows so many of the different faces he makes and you get to hear a bunch of fun different baby sounds.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Pregnancy Wrap Up

I had my 6 week post-delivery doctors visit yesterday.  It's the last visit connected to the pregnancy and I'm now officially done with everything pregnancy connected.  So I figure it's time to wrap up this pregnancy with one final post.

I know I complained a lot and it was hard to always see the good things, but there were good things.  I don't want to forget those. 

Here are some of the things I liked about being pregnant:
  • I loved maternity clothes.  The maternity pants were certainly comfy as were the big spacious tops.  I have always been a fan of the empire waist but sometimes wearing clothes with one, made me look pregnant.  However, that wasn't a concern when I was pregnant.  :)  For the first time ever, I felt like it was okay to wear clothes that were more clingy and showed my curves which was very freeing.  
  • After I got past the morning sickness and got back my appetite, I didn't stress as much as I did pre-pregnancy about what I was eating.  Don't misinterpret this, I still paid attention to what I ate and made sure I was making healthy choices because I didn't want to gain a bunch of unnecessary weight.  So, I didn't go crazy and only eat pizza and cake but I didn't have the same guilt if I had a slice of cheese on a burger or ate a late night snack.
  • The scale went up and it was okay.
  • I embraced my pregnant body and felt good about my curves.  I didn't suck in my stomach (I couldn't if I tried) or hide behind big loose clothes. 
  • I got lots of compliments on how good I looked.  People would say that pregnancy looked good on me and I was able to take the compliment.
  • I looked forward to visits with my OB-GYN.  Dr. Suzette Boyd in Frisco, TX was amazing.  She was the perfect doctor for me and was supportive, encouraging, compassionate, and realistic.  I left visits with her feeling better than when I arrived.  I had a partner in this pregnancy who answered all my questions, never made me feel rushed, and made me feel important.  I will miss seeing her each month.
  • It was great how pregnancy was a universally accepted excuse.  :)  I didn't have to move heavy boxes, I didn't have to take out stinky trash, I could leave an evening work function earlier because I was tired, I could sit in the back of meetings and leave frequently for bathroom trips,  I could bring a snack with me everywhere, I could wear less fashionable but comfy shoes, forget something? blame pregnancy.  No one questioned me (especially women who had been pregnant), it was all okay because I was pregnant.  AWESOME!
  • Sometimes it was fun to feel the baby moving inside of me (sometimes it was awkward, weird, or uncomfortable but not always) and I especially liked when he had the hiccups.
  • My hair was not as dry as it was pre-pregnancy.
  • My fingernails and hair grew at super speeds.
  • I didn't stress about flossing because even trying to put floss inside my mouth made me gag or throw up.  (This may not seem like a good thing but I don't like flossing or trying to remember to do it so it was nice to just give up on it for awhile for the sake of not throwing up.)
  • I enjoyed Peter being affectionate with the baby aka my belly.

We tried to take a picture each week once I started showing.  We missed some but oh well.  Here's the progression (p.s. NO JUDGEMENT!  These were not photo shoots.)
14th week (I wasn't ready yet to show the belly)

16th Week

Belly - 17th Week

18th Week

23rd Week

24th Week

25th Week

26th Week

27th Week

29th Week
 
30th Week


32nd Week

34th Week

35th Week

36th Week

37th Week


38th Week

39th Week
The last thing I want to make sure and document about the pregnancy is what my weight, blood pressure, and the baby's fetal heart rate was at each doctors visit.  (Not fascinating for you but I want to remember it.)  I'm not going to tell you what weight I started at, instead I will just tell you how many lbs I lost or gained from that starting point.  Keep in mind that based on me being overweight, my doctor and I set a goal for me to gain less than a typical pregnancy. 

Here is the format - #1 - date of doctors visit, #2 - how many weeks along based on an estimated date of conception of 12/7/10 and due date of 8/30/11, #3 - lbs up or down from weight at date of conception, #4 - blood pressure, #5 - fetal heart rate (beats per minute)

1/10/11, 7th week, down 2 lbs, 100/60, I don't have the fetal heart rate for the first visit
2/7/11, 11th week, down 4 lbs, 100/60, don't have the fetal heart rate for this one either
3/7/11, 15th week, down 1 lb, 107/70, 152
4/11/11, 20th week, 0 lb up or down, 124/60, 148
5/9/11, 24th week, up 5 lbs, 108/72, 163
6/6/11, 28th week, up 9 lbs, 116/62, 156
6/21/11, 30th week, up 11 lbs, 106/60, 145
7/11/11, 33rd week, up 14 lbs, 110/70, 156
7/25/11, 35th week, up 16 lbs, 122/68, 154
8/10/11, 38th week, up 17 lbs, 130/82, 161
8/15/11, 39th week, up 15 lbs, 130/70, 144
9/1/11, 2 weeks post delivery, down 7 lbs, 110/70, n/a
9/27/11, 6 weeks post delivery, down 12 lbs, 110/70, n/a

The last time we measured which was pretty close to the end of the pregnancy, my belly was 50 inches around.  My goodness!

Based on my scale at home, my pregnancy weight gain peaked at 18 lbs and then the first time I weighed myself after delivering was 5 days after and I was only 3 lbs up.  I'm pretty dang happy about that and working to keep those pounds coming off (thank goodness for breastfeeding calorie burns).  Now that I have clearance from my doctor, it's time to add in some exercise!  Now, where do I find the time to do that???

This sweet face makes me so happy

I find these pictures so rediculously cute that they needed their own post.  I couldn't have them lost in the middle of another post.  This is while we had stopped to eat some fast food for lunch during our car shopping.  We got Max out of his car seat and let him eat and play a little bit.  He rewarded us by looking super cute and by distracting us so that we spent much longer on our break than we had planned.  :)






New Baby, New Car

With the addition of the new baby, it was time to get a new car. 

We have been a 1 car family for the last 2 years and I have loved it.  I felt good about reducing our carbon footprint.  I really enjoyed riding to and from work each day with Peter.  It gave us a chance to connect each day before we got home and got distracted by things at home - TV, computers, laundry, etc.  It was a chance for us to be in tight quarters together each day for at least 20 minutes and hold hands.  Plus it was nice to only have 1 car to insure, 1 car to gas up, 1 car to maintain.  Sure, once a month or so it was a pain that he had the car with him at work and I needed to run an errand or something but we dealt with it.  If I could have left it this way, I would have.

Unfortunately it just isn't wise anymore now that we have Max.  I need to have a car to take him to doctor's appts or to be babysat, etc.  And sure it will be nice to be able to run errands during the day while I am still on maternity leave.

So last weekend we started the un-fun job of shopping for a car.  We knew we wanted something that would be roomier so car seats would fit comfortably and that Peter would find comfortable.  We also wanted a car with more seats so that we can fit in out-of-town visitors or Brittany and her family.  Plus, we then have a car that our family can grow with.  I hate car shopping.  It is such a hassle.  We spent Friday night, Saturday day, Monday night, and Tuesday night test driving, negotiating, visiting other dealerships, re-negotiating, etc.  PAINFUL!  Plus, doing all this while toting around a 5 week old just isn't fun for him.  My poor son spent more time in a car seat in one day than he has his whole life put together probably.  He was so good though and mostly slept (although he paid us back by having rough nights).

We finally decided on a 2012 Toyota Highlander and brought it home yesterday.  I'm really happy with how it drives and the safety ratings it got.  It should be a great family car that will last us for a long time to come.  I can't believe I have a baby and an SUV.  CRAZY!
Max hanging out while we "haggle" on Friday night
Max patiently waiting for us to sign all the paperwork on Tuesday night

Our family with Waleed, our salesman

Just the fam and the new car

Monday, September 26, 2011

One Month Old - Photo Shoot

Maxwell Charles Millar - One Month Old